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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Turn Your Head & Cough

I'm super, duper frustrated right now with a certain "special someone" in my life who is as stubborn as all get out - especially when it comes to issues concerning his health. No, I'm not griping about the hubs...he's actually on my good side for a change! But, it's someone close to him, too.

I just don't get why men don't take a more active role in their own health care. I mean, you only get ONE SHOT at life. Don't take that single shot for granted - who cares if YOU aren't worried about that nagging cough or that the tingly feeling down your left arm isn't really that bothersome...because it's nagging & bothering me and just about everyone else who cares! Seriously, MEN, take a hint from the's OK to talk about what's going on with your health. It's OK to visit your doctor on the regular. It's OK to be "in tune" with your body.

Given how stressful my day has been because of the aforementioned "special someone" I made it my quest tonight to find out exactly WHY it is that men choose not to see a doctor (regularly). I am forever grateful to Google for helping me find this freaking hilarious list put together by Dr. Sharon Orrange over at DailyStrength. What's even more hilarious are the comments that follow her blog post.

*DISCLAIMER - if you're easily offended, a bit of a prude or just lacking in the sense of humor department, then please do not keep reading. I found this list to be funny, but, then again, I am not easily offended, I am far from being a prude and I have a sick (pun intended?) sense of humor. If you are OK with all of this, then continue reading, but you can't say that I didn't warn you!

Men die at higher rates than women for all of the leading causes of death. We know the reasons men give when surveyed about why they avoid the doctor: "I don't have the time; it's too expensive, I'm afraid of what I might find out, I'm fine." Here are the 10 reasons I think men stay away from the doctor. Correct me if I'm wrong.

1) You are afraid we will put our finger in your butt. We will, especially if you are over 40 or have any complaints related to your bowel movements. Yes, you get a rectal exam after the age of 40 once a year for a feel of your prostate and so we can check your stool for microscopic blood that you can't see.
2) You are afraid we will examine your balls. We will, if you are 40 or younger. The peak age for testicular cancer is 18-40 so guidelines recommend you get a once a year testicular exam. Don't worry it won't hurt at all.
3) I feel FINE. I am glad you feel fine, but you can feel FINE with high cholesterol, high blood pressure and elevated blood sugars. Your mother or wife won't feel fine when they are taking care of you after you have a stroke. Don't wait until you feel awful to come see us.
4) Going to the Doctor is a chick thing. Many of you feel this way but remember we live longer than you. If doctor visits are a chick thing well, then, nursing homes are a guy thing. You have to get over this. It's true the waiting room magazines are not for guys but when you come see us you will see that many of the medical assistants, doctors, phlebotomists and medical records folks are men. Real men go to doctors.
5) You are embarrassed to talk about what's going on with you. The bright red blood on the toilet paper when you wipe, the red itchy rash in your groin and on your feet, the problems you have at times getting a boner, getting up at night a few times to pee, we hear it all the time. You are not alone and our job is to show you how common this is and help fix it for you.
6) You don't find the office hours convenient. I get this and urge you to find a doctor who is accessible and can work around your office hours. Seriously though, the average guy watches 16 hours of TV a week, you can come for a 30 minute visit once a year and maybe a couple follow up visits as needed.
7) Going to the Doctor is giving in to your nagging wife. I had a patient who gave his wife for her 20th anniversary a copy of his Lipitor prescription, thinking this was a GIFT to his wife that he was taking care of his medical issues. It is true, women rightly so nag their dads, brothers and husbands to go to the doctor because they are tired of square dancing with other women at the assisted living facilities.
8) You don't realize we are here for prevention. You don't have to be sick to come see us and if you establish a relationship with us you have easy access when you do get sick. Once a year we can touch base with you to discuss age appropriate screening which we KNOW helps you stay well.
9) You don't have a relationship with a physician. If you are not attached to a regular physician by the age of 40 you are more likely to get in trouble. Unlike women who need annual pap smears and contraception, you haven't had to see someone regularly from the age of 18-30. Find someone your friends use or enlist your partners help to find someone that might be a connection. You want someone accessible and younger physicians are much more likely to email so look until you find the right match.
10) You think we will pick on you for your habits. Drinking a 12 pack on the weekends, not exercising and eating bad foods, among other things. These things are not as uncommon as you might expect. We will put you on a long leash and let you pick and choose the habits to get rid of as needed.

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Blogger Rachel said...

I've never wanted the men in my life to go to the doctor as much as I do right now. Cody just found out his father, who is about the same age as my dad, has cancer and yet he felt fine. I'm going to have to pass this on to every man I know!

Jun 2, 2009, 10:50:00 PM  
Blogger Michelle said...

Rachel, I'm so sorry to hear that! Cody's father is in my thoughts & prayers. Life's too short to take for granted...tell those men to get to the doctor!

On a side note, I'm sure you figured out who the "special someone" is, right?! ;-)

Jun 2, 2009, 10:59:00 PM  
Blogger The Delima Dilemma... said...

So we should change #7 to the nagging females in his life LOL

Jun 3, 2009, 6:26:00 AM  
Blogger Rachel said...

Michelle, let me think a second about who your "special someone" might be. LOL!

And Catrina, yes please can we say just female cause I'm about to become a nagging female in lotsa mens lives!

Jun 3, 2009, 7:45:00 AM  

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